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Margaret Reyes Dempsey's avatar

Hi Ramon. I just read your post and laughed with delight at the synchronicity. My friend Valentine (https://substack.com/@valentinelaout) and I just wrote posts on stillness and silence on the same day without having discussed it beforehand. I love when these things happen. I really enjoyed this article. From a spiritual point of view, those periods of stillness, silence, and pausing are important to connect to something higher, whatever you wish to call it. But even for people who do not relate to that in any way, to pause after some activity it to process it, internalize it...really make it a part of you. We think we're wasting time when we do this and nothing could be further from the truth. Thank you!

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Francesco Leone's avatar

Very interesting way of practising stillness, I am pondering to start practising also in this way. Thanks for sharing it!

Just a small remark I am not sure if practising only spontaneously work for me.

Sticking to practice something (bioenergetics in my case) every day at least once, no matter what I think or feel gave me the energy and momentum to keep my responsabilities, not get caught in avoidance and in resisting every action. Since sometimes seems that the mind resist everything going out, staying home, practising bio, reading, exercising, talking with people, seems just resistance. Not sure if it is possible to realise this without a commitment.

By committing to something that clearly increase your emotional and physical health, you are reinforcing the part of you that wants to keep you healthy and alive. By reinforcing it, it become a stronger part of you and support your choices even outside your practice, in your daily life.

With all that said I feel the stress that brings the commitment and the motion, of doing the right thing and the longing for something more spontaneous. I see this spontaneous practice of stillness as a balncing factor to motion and commitment. (since to me spontaneity-commitment, stillness-motion seems two dualities).

So can be valuable for me if I am practising it togheter with a practice (like bio or 30 minutes meditations with a set intention to feel your body, for example) I am commiting to.

I wonder what are your thoughts on that?

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